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“We make assumptions about what others are doing or thinking – we take it personally – and then we blame them and respond by sending emotional poison with our word,” Ruiz describes. Doesn`t that perfectly summarize your knee-jerk reaction in the episode above? The Four Accords©, published in 1997 and sold about 9 million copies. It has been on the New York Times bestseller list for nearly a decade. Everything we do is based on agreements we have made – agreements with ourselves, with other people, with God, with life. But the most important agreements are those we make with ourselves. In part 2 of this 2-part video, we learn the book of the law that governs our mind and the inner judge that makes us suffer because we never live up to our “image of perfection.” All our normal tendencies are lost in the process of domestication, and we begin to look for what we have lost. We seek freedom because we are no longer free; we seek happiness because we are no longer happy; We seek beauty because we no longer believe that we are beautiful. What we are looking for is our “self”. With practice, the Four Accords help us regain our “authentic self,” and this is the greatest gift we can give ourselves. Indeed, as children, we did not have the opportunity to choose our beliefs, we simply accepted the information that was transmitted to us by our families, our schools and our societies. And no matter if the ideas, values, and beliefs were good or bad, every time we heard an opinion and believed it, we internalized it as an agreement, and that agreement was part of our belief system. Then we used these agreements to forge our own identity. The truth is that not taking things personally boosts your self-confidence.
As Ruiz goes on to explain, “If you get into the habit of not taking things personally, you don`t have to trust what others do or say. You just need to trust yourself to make responsible decisions. You are never responsible for the actions of others; They are solely responsible for you. If you truly understand this and refuse to take things personally, you can hardly be hurt by negligent comments or actions. Find the courage to ask questions and express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as possible to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With a single agreement, you can completely change your life. Be impeccable in my own words, don`t take things personally, don`t make assumptions and always do my best, these four promises are hard to keep, but once I became aware of these four promises, things changed in a positive direction.
“The Four Chords” not only gave me the four chords with which I made small positive changes in my life, but the book also helped me understand the process of “domestication” and how that “domestication” shaped my belief systems. “We also make assumptions about ourselves, and that creates a lot of inner conflict.” I think I`m able to do that. For example, you make this assumption, and then you realize that you are not able to do it. You overestimate or underestimate yourself because you didn`t take the time to ask yourself questions and answer them. Maybe you need to gather more facts about a particular situation. Or maybe you need to stop lying to yourself about what you really want. The fourth agreement gives readers a better insight into how progress has been made in achieving their life goals. This agreement includes the integration of the first three agreements into everyday life and also the exploitation of their full potential. [8] It is a question of doing one`s best individually, which is different from the different situations and circumstances that the individual may encounter. Ruiz believes that if you avoid self-judgment and do your best at every moment, you can avoid remorse. [10] By incorporating the first three chords and doing their best in all facets of life, people will be able to live a life without grief and self-loathing. [10] Our truest self. The truest self buried deep under the rubble of broken beliefs.
The truest self hidden behind the façade of the illusory perfection of what society expects of you. In addition to the book and audiobook, there is also an eBook, a four-color illustrated book, a card game, and an online course. [1] As mentioned above, all the agreements we have in our heads are based on beliefs that we have consciously and unconsciously accepted. Together, they form our vision of the world. What others say, what they do, and the opinions they share match the agreements they have in their own minds, meaning that nothing others do or say is because of you – it`s because of them. In The Four Agreements, Don Miguel reveals the source of self-limiting agreements that deprive us of joy and cause unnecessary suffering. If we are prepared to amend these agreements, there are four agreements of deceptive but powerful simplicity that we can adopt as guiding principles. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, the Four Accords offer a powerful code of conduct that can quickly transform our lives into a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love. By being impeccable with your word, taking nothing personally, making no assumptions, and always doing your best, you are working from a place of love, not fear. .
